This year has been a pretty good year for my online book club. We've read some really great books that created quite a bit of discussion and really inspired all the members to share thoughts and feelings and experiences. I believe this is the last book for 2014 and it's a good one. I can't wait for 2015!!!
I only just started this book over the Thanksgiving Holiday and have to admit I haven't read it all but was inspired right from the beginning to write about sisters.
One of the best posts that I've ever written, and my personal favorite is this one entitled simply SISTERS. It starts out with one of my favorite paintings, Deux Soeurs (Two Sisters) by William Adolfe Bouguereau. I love these two sisters together. The older one protecting the younger one and yet you also see the older one leaning on the younger one for support. I felt this when I wrote the post about my mom and her sister.
I feel that when I think about my own sister. There is a special bond between sisters and definitely a strong bond between my mom and her sister and me and my sister.
"Sister. She is your mirror, shining back at you with a world of possibilities. She is your witness, who sees you at your worst and best, and loves you anyway. She is your partner in crime, your midnight companion, someone who knows when you are smiling, even in the dark. She is your teacher, your defense attorney, your personal press agent, even your shrink. Some days, she's the reason you wish you were an only child." - Barbara Alpert.
My Sister Lisa and I in Mexico on vacation with our parents |
"Sisters function as safety nets in a chaotic world simply by being there for each other." - Carol Saline
My sister Lisa and I at a Halloween Party this year |
"Sister is probably the most competitive relationship within the family, but once the sisters are grown, it becomes the strongest relationship." - Margaret Mead
My sister Lisa and me this October in Lake Tahoe |
Lisa and I in our aprons ready to do our mom's bidding while making Christmas Tamales |
Lisa and I in the bleachers waiting for her sons Graduation Ceremony to begin |
If ever Lisa and I have to work together to discover a hidden inheritance I think we will do quite well both in finding the inheritance and in spending it!
Reading this makes me miss my sister, who lives in Louisiana! You're right, being sisters is such a unique and difficult to describe experience.
ReplyDeleteWell I hope you get to see your sister soon!
DeleteIf you haven't already, I recommend reading "Freud's Blond Spot" - a book of essays on siblings. It's pretty fabulous and an easy read!
ReplyDeleteI checked out the book on Amazon and will order it when I get home. I also checked the reviews on Goodreads and people like it. Thanks for the recommendation and thanks for commenting!
DeleteMy youngest sister came for Thanksgiving -- I hadn't seen her in almost a year, and this post really made me long to have my family all together. It's tough when your sisters (and parents) live in different states!
ReplyDeleteOh Darcie! I would just be adrift and alone in the world without my sister. She and I talk every morning on the phone on the way to work, and then again at lunch time and then sometimes on the drive home. We have coffee together every Sat & Sun morning with our mom. People say you never see one of us without the other and we are quite often mistaken for twins. I have two brothers that I see maybe one a year and they are both a stones throw from where I am right now and never see them. Sisters have a special bond.
DeleteVery lovely post. Bouguereau is a marvelous painter, is he not? The picture of you two as children in Mexico is a really cool!
ReplyDeleteOne of the great things about being poor is there are no disputes over inheritance!
May you and your sister have many years of adventures yet to come!
He is marvelous! Love his paintings! I love that picture of Lisa and I in Mexico. I have another picture that I love of Lisa and I where I crawled into her crib and I'm holding her as a tiny baby, but I can't find it!
DeleteIt's funny that even when you are poor people will fight over the silliest things!!! I've seen it happen in many families.
I still have to finish writing about our Lake Tahoe adventure!